The following article is reprinted
with permission of The Veterans Of Foreign Wars. It was originally
printed in the November 1997 issue of the VFW Magazine.
One VFW member's determined
mission to pay homage to a brother-in-arms becomes a community
cause.
Last Veterans Day in a tiny Florida
town, the gravesite of a fallen comrade with a huge heart was
restored to dignity, righting years of oversite and neglect. But
it would not have happened without the perseverance of the man
whose life he saved, plus the intervention of some derermined
teachers and schoolchildren.
Fred Ostrom, junior vice-commander-in-chief
of Post 307 Rochester, NY., gave new meaning to the Marine motto
"Semper Fidelis" (always faithful) during his two-year
struggle to honor the memory of PFC. Robert H. Jenkins, Jr.
Both were members of C Company,
3rd Recon Battalion, during Operation Dewey Canyon when their
position on Fire Suppert Base Argonne north of the A Shau Valley
of South Vietnam was assaulted by an NVA platoon March 5, 1969.
A gernade landed near their machinegun
emplacement, blowing off part of Ostrom's left hand and arm. Seconds
later, Jenkins shoved Ostrom out of the way and sheilded him from
another gernade that landed directly in the emplacement. Jenkins
four months shy of his 21st birthday, was killed instantly and
was posthumously awarded the Medal Of Honor.
During Ostrom's postwar years
as an accountant, Jenkins was never far from his thoughts. He
often planned to go to Florida to see Jenkin's family but "chickened
out", according to Ostrom.
Eventually, through the Marine
Corps Archive, Ostrom learned Jenkins' old school in Palatka,
near his hometown of Interlachen, had been renamed in his honor.
School Principal Janet Cavuoti provided the family's address and
Ostrom wrote the letter he dreaded for years.
Ostrom began a regular letter
exchange with Jenkins' family and Linda Sheppard's sixth-grade
class at the school. "I wanted my children to have an appreciation
of the people who fought for this country,"Sheppard said.
Hundreds of letters and get-well
cards from the schoolchildren helped pull Ostrom out of a period
of depression following a third heart attack. The connection was
the catalyst that finally prompted his visit to Florida on March
7, 1995-"Fred Ostrom Day" at the school.
"They went bonkers"
Ostrom said. I had no idea it would be such a big deal."
His elation was short-lived, however, once he visited Jenkins'
grave.
"I felt like I had been
punched in the gut," he said. "I couldn't believe that
the recipient of our nation's highest award for valor was buried
in such a garbage dump."
Ostrom began a determined, months
long campaign to right that wrong. He contacted fellow Marines
and the VA. He also wrote a letter to the editor of the The
Palatka Daily News to shame area veterans into picking
up the torch.
A veteran friend put him in touch
with U.S. Sen. John McCain (R-Ariz.) "All of a sudden things
started to roll," Ostrom said. "Finally, we found the
right button to push."
McCain got the Congressional
Medal of Honor Society and Carlos Rainwater, executive director
of the Florida Department of Veterans Affairs, on board, culminating
in the re-dedication of the refurbished gravesite on Veterans
Day 1996.
About 7000 pounds of debris were
cleared from the cementery. A gold-inlaid Medal Of Honor headstone
was provided by the VA. A footstone was the combined donation
of the American Legion, VFW Posts 3349 in Palatka and 10164 in
Interlachen, the County Veterans' Service Officers Association,
DAV, AMVETS and The Marine Corps League.
A grave cover from an anonymous
donor bears verse from the Gospel of St. John: "Greater love
hath no man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends."
"He not only saved me, but
my entire family," Ostrom said. " There's not a day
that goes by that I don't think about him and what and what he
did for me.